There's always more than one way to look at a situation....
But, sometimes it seems that things are going against you. It could be rejection letters, it could be your WIP has hit the wall, it could be your basement flooded twice and your favorite pet died. (For those of you who are new to my blog...I had a not so much fun summer...) But, look at my lovely basement now! It is clutter free and completely repaired! We took the summer "fun" as an opportunity to simplify our lives....
I began in the basement, but soon moved to the kitchen, the garage , the guest bedrooms, my daughter's room (with her help of course), our room, including the closet, and I began The Great Declutter Movement. In fact, we aren't done. We've only just begun! My husband was so inspired by the basement flooding that he built a wonderful set of shelves in the storage room and plans on building two more! We are going to completely empty one of our guest rooms and I am going to have my OWN room to be creative in. (I'm beside myself with excitement!) I don't know how many truck loads of goodies I'll be donating to St Vincent DePaul's Thrift Shop, but I feel really good about it...
Flooded Basement Twists Into A Positive:
*Helped out a worthy charity
*Did a project with my brilliant hubby
*Spent more time with daughter (because she couldn't go in the basement to watch TV all summer...)
*Basement repainted and reorganized
*The whole house is getting decluttered
*I'm getting my OWN ROOM (my first one since I was 17)!!!!!!!!
So, when you are struggling with a rejection or a negative in your life, twist it and into a positive....
Please feel free to share a time you have twisted a negative into a positive or if you are struggling with one right now maybe we can help you find a twist on the situation (My disclaimer: I am not, nor have ever been a medical doctor so I'm not promising anything, I'm just sayin' I'd like to listen and help if I can. I usually reply to your comments via email, so if you don't have your blogger set up showing your email I can't reply to you personally.)
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Have a safe and happy weekend!
Hi Sharon,
ReplyDeleteExcellent way of looking at life. Negativity can be about our perceptions of a situation.
I live my life, as best I can, with a realistic form of positive anticipation.
I lost my home and my life savings and that could seem like a very negative situation. Yet, I am much happier now. For the house I lost was small, crowded and had a tiny garden. Now, although I'm renting through what is called a 'Housing Association'; I now live in a beautiful location and have a huge, wonderful garden that was created out of love and sheer
determination. I maybe be poor financially, but I'm so much richer in my heart.
Thanks Sharon.
With respect and kindness, Gary.
Woud love to de-clutter, but have a husband who loves having lots around him. Happy weekend to you, Carole. :0)
ReplyDeleteJust goes to show you. Even the worst things in life can lead to something good.
ReplyDelete:-)
Congrats on getting so much done! Negatives can often turn into positives--it's just a matter of looking at them the right way.
ReplyDeleteI love the idea of twisting things into a positive. I think, for me, it's hard to write and go to school (plus all the other stuffs that have to be taken care of). But I'll be done with school this year and no more homework (at least not for school)!
ReplyDeleteWhen I was at the shelter for 9 months and nobody wanted me, I keep telling myself that I was the one waiting for the right family. What a positive that turned out to be!
ReplyDeleteAwwww Sharon K Mayhew!! What a beautiful decluttered and thoroughly new basement!! It's fantastic!! Yay!
ReplyDeleteOh but the best is that you'll have your own room!! Yay!!!!! That's the best ever!!!
You've really turned such a lot of negatives into sparkly positives and gained yourself a room!!! Sorry,I just had to say that again cos that's just brilliant!! :-)
Oh I do like Brian's take on this!! LOL!!!! Everyone - bipeds and furry creatures should take heart with your fab post today!! Take care
x
Your basement looks beautiful! I love the color of the paint and white trim!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you found positives in the flooding. I am a positive person, too. I find it easier to deal with things with a better attitude.
I'm doing the Great Declutter Movement right now!!!
You have done a beautiful job on your basement, Sharon, and good for you continuing the uncluttering! It inspires me to try to do something about my own. Most always good things can come from bad, and a positive attitude can cancel out an awful lot of negatives.
ReplyDeleteI love when the negatives turn into positives. You guys did a great job.
ReplyDeleteWell look at you turning that frown upside down ~ love it! Your basement looks beautiful! I love the colors. De-cluttering is so good for the soul isn't it? It somehow sets you free. Good for you.
ReplyDeleteA negative into a positive? I can't think of one quickly though I am sure there is. Things usually happen for a reason don't they?
Have a super terrific weekend Sharon!
xo Catherine
xo Catherine
I love spinning negative to positive! So my husband broke his arm when we had just started dating. REALLY bad break. It even kept him from going to medical school.
ReplyDeleteBUT . . . on the positive spin, he got ME. :D He would have left before we had time to date long enough. So overall, I'm glad he broke his arm.
Hey, I love that idea of turning the rejection into a positive. :D
ReplyDeleteA great post with a wonderful message...I try to live that way and it's not always easy, but there is always something positive in every situation="Through pain or joy, there is potential for grace realized."...Change your perspective and you can change your life!...Hope you have a fun weekend, Sharon; your basement looks beautiful!
ReplyDeleteGreat job on the basement! Love the advice on twisting a negative into a positive.
ReplyDeleteThe basement looks fantastic! Good job on decluttering - it feels so good when you get some of it done. My daughter and I went through several rooms this summer too!
ReplyDeleteAw amazing! Well done on that!
ReplyDeleteI am dying for my own room. I want a study to line with shelves and books and to decorate exactly how I want and need and be totally creative in! I hope you'll post photos of yours once it's ready, I'm so envious :-)
Thank you for sharing this. That's such a wonderful way to look at things -- and just at life in general. And the basement looks absolutely wonderful now. Your family did such a great job on it! :)
ReplyDeletehi dr sharon! ha ha. im gonna call you the twist doc cause your showing people how to twist the bad into some good. im real happy your could see the good out of all that bad stuff. for me just think if i didnt have that lukemia and get so long at the hospital and get a cool doctor that got me blogging i wouldnt have got you for a friend. wow thats a for real positive! and just look at all the blogger friends i got cause of being sick. how cool is that!!
ReplyDelete...hugs from lenny
I'm sorry your pet died :(!
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad to see you making lemonade, Sharon. So sorry your summer was so miserable, but it looks like you have come through it all like a champion. The basement looks lovely, by the way.
ReplyDeleteWOW! Your basement is lovely indeed! Congratulations, Sharon! You're right. Sometimes what seems to be a negative circumstance turns out to be a blessing in disguise. I try to be positive even in difficult situations. However, I'm only human and sometimes I get the blues :(
ReplyDeleteLOL...I WISH I COULD HAVE SEEN THE POSITIVE ASPECTS FROM THE START...IT'S MUCH EASIER TO LOOK BACK NOW THAT THE MESS IS MOSTLY BEHIND US AND SEE WHAT WE GAINED FROM THE SITUATION...
ReplyDeleteTHANKS, JUDE...HE WAS A WONDERFUL CAT AND I MISS HIM EVERY DAY.
I WILL POST PICTURES WHEN I GET MY ROOM DONE....
THANKS FOR STOPPING IN EVERYONE!
Sharon, so glad to know you're making progress on your basement! I think it's great you've been able to turn things around to your advantage.
ReplyDeleteSharon,
ReplyDeleteOMG I love the basement! It's beautiful!
I've been visiting Lenny...but I can't leave a message because of my adult contents on the blog on Mondays...but I have taken the writer oath and will post the button on my blog!
Big hugs to you both
Hawk
Well it looks beautiful! So nice and open...love it!
ReplyDeleteAngela @ The Bookshelf Muse
You are such a positive gal, I love it.
ReplyDeleteIt's great you were able to get so much good out of your flooded basement.
ReplyDeleteThe basement looks great! We've been trying to reduce and declutter over here as well. I'll be glad when it's done, but the doing is NOT fun.
ReplyDeleteI love stories that involve twists like these! A decluttered house can beat nothing! :-) Have fun getting there...
ReplyDeleteLOL! Loved your disclaimer. :o)
ReplyDeleteI know it's been a rough summer for you, so it's awesome to hear (and see!) the positive that has come from the bad events.
I've yet to see a negative thing in my life not turn into a positive thing. Something truly miraculous, since I know I don't deserve that kind of treatment all the time.
Thanks for sharing, friend! :o)
Oh, man, I just realized what I said... I meant to say, "Nothing can beat a decluttered house". Talk about twisting my own words! ;-)
ReplyDeleteYou're such an amazing person! I love knowing people who are just kind-hearted, sweet, and willing to do anything to help a good cause! I'm glad to see this negative was in fact a positive!
ReplyDeleteSpring cleaning on a whole new level :)
i love to de-clutter and find it is on on-going thing that i must keep up with. sometimes i clear out stuff from my closet and i wish i could part with more. it feels so good dropping that stuff off to goodwill and having more room in my teeny little closet!
ReplyDeletethanks for visiting my blog today! :)